You Are Not My Mother (2022) poster
2022 · horror

You Are Not My Mother

Directed by Kate Dolan1h 33m2022
ElsewhereIMDb5.87kRT88%Metacritic74
  • heavy
  • measured
  • intense
  • inventive
  • cold
Movie DNA

Heavy, measured, extreme horror, inventive in texture. Nihilistic, mid-stakes, cold, hand-scored across twelve axes of taste.

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In a North Dublin housing estate, teenage Char's mother mysteriously goes missing. When she returns without explanation, Char resolves to uncover the truth behind her disappearance and shed light on her family's dark secrets.

Our read · You Are Not My Mother (2022) reads as a heavy, measured, inventive horror entry — extreme in intensity, mid-stakes in scope, cold in temperature, nihilistic in outlook. Hand-scored on twelve axes of taste — mood, pacing, weirdness, hope, stakes, humour, reality, density, warmth, auteur, intensity, and era — with a derived palette drawn from its dominant cinematography.

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You want moody Dublin folk horror about family fracture and wrong-feeling homecomings.

ends unsettlingit leaves you shakena slow buildgrips by minute 20attention 4/5breezes by
Date nightWith friendsSoloWith parentsKids around
Heads-upchild perildrug use

Skip it tonightYou want clear answers, jump scares, or anything gentle around mothers and teens.

DNA · twelve axes

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Each axis is hand-scored — not derived from votes or genre averages. The marker shows where this film sits; the gradient fill uses the film's own cinematography palette.

Mood · HeavyCosy
Pacing · Slow-burnKinetic
Intensity · GentleExtreme
Weirdness · ConventionalSurreal
Hope · NihilisticRedemptive
Stakes · IntimateEpic
Humour · NoneBroad
Reality · GroundedFantastical
Density · SparseTwisty
Warmth · ColdTender
Auteur · TransparentSignature
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